The Importance of Positive Role Models in Life to Success

Nothing gets accomplshed by itself. Even to raise aworthwhile habits in life. What is a family member, an
tent takes planning. The tent. The pegs. The hammeruncle a neighbor? This person may have inadvertently
and tools. And a plan.set you on the good path. It is much better to learn
Yet many people do not understand what you mightfrom a good role model than have to overcome the
consider to be clear to your two year old. "Tell themistakes that a poor role model will leave you to
truth" and "Don't take what is not yours". Look at aovercome. Or it may be a person from the outside.
simple hamster.For example one man who grew up in a terrible home
A hamster will intuitively know several things that areenvironment realized very clearly that in his life his role
basic to success in life.model of note was a math teacher who when
First not to be interested in life and inquisitive. Seconddiscovering that a student was not at an exam
not to bite the hand that feeds it.physically left the school to bang on the girl's door to in
Thirdly if you give a hamster some food, say foreffect drag her to school for the test. This person
example some sunflower seeds it will promptly hideclearly stated that his life had been one big party and
these items in other words to save the seeds and notthis taught that ""kid, life is serious" Interestingly enough
swallow them right away.this person later went on to a successful career in real
Many people you will meet in your travels may repeatestate and insisted that because of rigorous drillings of
simple phrases and slogans such as "Those that dothis math teacher that he was able to quickly calculate
not plan - plan to fail" or such truisms as "The job is notsums in his head to clinch real estate deals.
done until the tools (or paperwork) is either put awaySecondly it should be understood that in life people do
or finished.not stop at their level of competence. Organizations
Yet the amazing thing is that most of these samewhether it is at your place of work, your church, school
people do not comprehend the simple truths your childor non profit group tend to promote people until even
learnt in kindergarten or the hamster seems to knowafter trouble begins. Organizational structure is such
intuitively instinctively.people are seldom trained for their jobs. They are
How can this be? Why is it that apparently intelligent orthrust into a position that they are not trained for and
in many cases non intelligent people cannot graspbumble through. And guess who their role model in
these simple and apparent truisms.their new position. Guess what it is was their
The answer comes down to two factors. Firstly thepredecessor of boss who guess what was also
examples these people saw in life whether it wasunprepared ann. not trained. The cycle repeats itself
from their home and family environment or otherendlessly, the person in many if not most cases stops
important role models.at a level where his incompetence not competence is
Secondly in life and in many job or power structures ahis hallmark.
person is promoted not to the station that he or she isIt is amazing that if America is held up as the world
best at or most competent but rather to the stage atstandard or efficiency and effectiveness in
which his terrible incompetence stops that person incomparison to many cultures and economies. Imagine
the organizational structure.what it is like elsewhere in the world.
Think of it who is it that influenced you to good